People who are successful in their field, has one same character that is they do not like to delay and fast at doing something including a quick in achieving the targets set.
For those of you who have children, you can start building their basic character for your child by making simple habits that lead them to become a successful person later. How is that?
Start from small things
For example: When your child is learning to eat themselves, you are allowed your child to eat with a long time. Formerly bribed, now scooped it own, which would require an adjustment and a longer time.
After quite smoothly, now your child is about five years which your children start to 'know' target duration, namely eating. Your objective here is to accustom your child to do things with focus, quickly and correctly.
Regardless of whether true or not, I often see people who are accustomed to eating with a long time, then for another job they would likely take a long time too.
Like a book that said (I forget where I read), "If you want more successful, try walking 25% faster than usual".
If you practice these things and I believe your child will feel that this is like coercion and there will be resistance or repulsion from them, but, it is normal. Do not get mad, you need to realize also, if you out of 'comfortable' habit now, of course you also feel bad, is not it?
There is a book also said: "If you want the honey, do not kick the beehive”.
For every quick achievement of meal time, always give praise, so that your child will be more excited and feel that the struggle to get attention from you.
At the beginning and the end before your children eat, always say: "Eat, shower, study and homework is your own task to do. Do everything quickly and correctly. Later on, the smart one and the one that will be praised by your teacher is you, is not it? "
This is important in order to be recorded in his mind that this is his or her duty and for their own interests. You need to unite it with your love language (usually in the form of praises)
You will see that the positive process of all this is why I here like to share tips for you all, whether for children or your nephew.
The beginning actually true it is 'forced' until it became a 'habit' and the future of these habits can be an inherent character. And do you if you are a coach, mentor, and the best motivator for children?
Let's do it with all of your heart, patience and mind for the children.
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